Learn to love challenge, and you'll fill your life with accomplishment.

 Learn to love effort, and your skills will grow more valuable with each passing day.

 Learn to love making a difference, and doors will quickly open for you wherever you go.

Learn to love giving freely of yourself, and you'll receive more fulfillment than you ever could imagine.

We make them cry who care for us,

We cry for those who never care for us.

And we care for those who’ll never cry for us.

 This is the truth of life, it’s strange but  true Once you realize this,

 it’s never too late to change.

in your life you meet people

some you never think about again,

some  you wonder what happened to them.

there're some that you wonder

if they think about you,..&

there are some you wish you

never had to think about them  again..

But you do.

                                               Workout that shoulders!

You're one of a kind

Move away from the need to compare yourself to others. And you will move rapidly toward higher and higher levels of effectiveness and fulfillment.

Many of the things you see as limitations and deficiencies in your own life are not really limitations at all. They're created in your imagination when you compare yourself to others.

Don't waste your time focusing on what others have that you don't have. Instead, put your time and energy into making the most of the unique and valuable knowledge, skills and resources that you do have available to you.

Don't allow your energy to be drained away by worrying about what others will think. Simply be your authentic best, and keep in mind that what anyone else thinks about you is not your concern.

It's great when you can learn from others, find joy in being with others, and cooperate with others to achieve mutually beneficial results. Just don't allow your life to become bogged down by constantly comparing its details with the lives of those around you.

You are one of a kind. The more completely you celebrate and fulfill that reality, the more satisfying and rewarding life will be.

Rise to the challenge of this day. There is much to be done, and an endless array of possibilities.

There are difficulties, and you can ease them. There are injustices, and you can right them.

There is uncertainty, and you can spread confidence. There is darkness, and you can shine your light.

There are opportunities for joy, and you can fulfill them. There are moments to be filled with love and beauty, and you can give your best to them.

On this very day, you can create value that has never existed before. In whatever circumstance you may find yourself, you can add to the richness of life.

Give the gift of yourself to this day. And the treasures you build will last long after the day is over.

 If you watch the above images from your seat in front
of the computer, Mr.Angry is on the left, and Mrs.Calm
is on the right.

Get up from your seat, and move back 12 feet,
and PRESTO!! they switch places!!

This proves that we may not be seeing what's actually
there, all the time!!

The Art of Forgiveness

Let go of your grudge for better health. 

To forgive may be divine, but no one ever said it was easy. When someone has deeply hurt you, it can be extremely difficult to let go of your grudge. But forgiveness is possible -- and it can be surprisingly beneficial to your physical and mental health.
So how do you start the healing? Try following these steps

Calm yourself. To defuse your anger, try a simple stress-management technique. "Take a couple of breaths and think of something that gives you pleasure: a beautiful scene in nature, someone you love.

Don't wait for an apology. "Many times the person who hurt you has no intention of apologizing," Luskin says. "They may have wanted to hurt you or they just don't see things the same way. So if you wait for people to apologize, you could be waiting an awfully long time." Keep in mind that forgiveness does not necessarily mean reconciliation with the person who upset you or condoning of his or her action.

Take the control away from your offender. Mentally replaying your hurt gives power to the person who caused you pain. "Instead of focusing on your wounded feelings, learn to look for the love, beauty and kindness around you.

Try to see things from the other person's perspective. If you empathize with that person, you may realize that he or she was acting out of ignorance, fear -- even love. To gain perspective, you may want to write a letter to yourself from your offender's point of view.

Recognize the benefits of forgiveness. Research has shown that people who forgive report more energy, better appetite and better sleep patterns.

Don't forget to forgive yourself. "For some people, forgiving themselves is the biggest challenge," Luskin says. "But it can rob you of your self-confidence if you don''t do it."

   Love is difficult to define yet easy to recognize. The more of it you give away, the more of it you have. The less you demand of love, the more it will bring to you. The fewer conditions you place on love, the more perfectly it will suit you, and the more meaningful it will become.

Love can make a powerful, positive difference whenever it is present. And love can work its magic in every corner of your life. Give love to another and you forge a connection that empowers you both. Love the world around you and it will become more beautiful as a result. 

                                                     Love what you do and you become considerably more effective. Add love to knowledge and you'll have wisdom. Love life itself and you'll always find ways to give real meaning to every moment.

                                         Give a little kindness, and receive friendship in return. Give an extra effort, and receive even more value in return.

Give an honest answer, and receive trust in return. Give a smile, and receive joy in return.

Give with real meaning, and receive fulfillment in return. Give thanks, and receive true abundance in return.

Give your full attention, and receive a positive experience in return. Give your knowledge, and learn something in return.

Give what you treasure most, and receive much more of it in return. Give what you can, and receive the best of who you are.

Give of yourself. And receive a life of richness in return.

Have you ever hidden a price tag so your spouse won't see what you spent? Or covered up for the kids? Or kept quiet about feeling attracted to someone else?

Well, you're not alone.
Every marriage counselor on earth will tell you that honesty is at the root of the strongest relationships. With the divorce rate still hovering around.

Who's More Open, Men or Women?
Let's start with the basics. Women do most of the talking in a marriage, especially about the marriage -- no surprises there. Eighty-three percent of women say they are the ones most likely to begin the discussion that starts with "Let's talk about us." Only 57% of men, though, think their wives speak first.

What Can't Couples Talk About?
Some of our poll's greatest surprises arise from the conversations married people wish they could have, especially husbands. While women have long complained that their men don't talk enough, our poll shows men are just bursting to talk about matters deeper than sports or money -- but they don't know how.

What Are Our Most-Kept Secrets?
Have our respondents ever kept something secret from their spouses? Yes, say 42% of men and 36% of women.

Does Your Spouse Know About Your Prior Love Life?
It's normal to be curious about your partner's sexual past. How much do couples tell?
Asked if their spouse knows all the good stuff about past loves, 62% of women say yes, he knows everything, but only 52% of men spill the beans.

                               What has happened has happened. If you've had a difficult day, or month, or year, it does no good to dwell on your unfortunate experiences. Move on past them. Avoid the temptation to feel sorry for yourself or to enlist the pity of others. Your troubles are in the past so there is no reason whatsoever for dismay.

Get up and get going. The future is completely open and filled with an unlimited supply of positive possibilities. Today is a new day and you are fortunate enough to be living it. Furthermore, you can decide precisely how to live this day. You can determine what will become of it. Don't look backward with regret or contempt. Look forward with gratitude and excitement.

Your attitude right now matters more than anything that could have ever happened in the past. Forget about making excuses. Focus on making a difference. Every bit of negativity you've ever experienced is now in the past. Do yourself a big favor and leave it there.

Ever wonder why some guys are so much better than others at picking up women? It's not because they're better looking, smarter or have deeper pockets. But they probably have two characteristics that work in their favor in this department: confidence and persistence.

                    T R U E  L I E S

"Loose Change is a terrifying, masterful, well paced 9/11 conspiracy documentary that puts Michael Moore's Fahrenheit 9/11 to absolute shame."

This film shows direct connection between the attacks of September 11, 2001 and the United States government.

                                        IT IS EVERYONE'S duty TO VIEW THIS FILM!

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The more grudges you carry, the heavier your burden becomes. Forgive, and let them go.
When someone has wronged you, it hurts. There is certainly no sense in using your own time and energy to prolong that hurt. Forgive, and you can begin to move away from the pain. Forgive, and you can move forward with a much lighter load.

Forgiveness does not mean that you allow others to take advantage of you. On the contrary, forgiveness gives you positive power no matter what others may have done.

Anger and spite can eat away at life until there's almost nothing of value left. Forgive, and free yourself from the grips of that anger.

Forgive, and you'll be much better off. Forgive, and you'll be free to truly live.

With love, what was weak will grow strong. With love, what was impossible becomes real.

Love can find the beauty and value in even the most desperate situation. Love will bring hope where nothing else can.

Though love cannot be explained, it can never be denied. Love has its own reality that transcends the most oppressive limitations.

Love elevates what it touches to a higher dimension. When love is present, fears are calmed, wounds begin to heal, and joy is gloriously within reach.

Love, not because there is a reason, but because there is the possibility. Love, and you will know what you cannot understand.

Touch your dreams                               

                Dreams are not practical yet they have a reason that's as real and as worthwhile as any pragmatic consideration. When was the last time you touched your dreams?

Your dreams show you who you are. And that is very much worth knowing.

If you let them take hold of you, they will steadily pull you forward. When you commit yourself to follow them, your dreams can bring out the best of you.

Your dreams embody your highest hopes and visions. Through the eye of your dreams you see a world in which you have made a powerful positive difference.

Your dreams are not there to tease you with visions of what you do not have. Rather, your dreams truly show you, in a profound and intimate way, what is most certainly possible for you.

Your dreams are yours for a reason, and much of that reason is to entice you into living a life of purpose and fulfillment. Allow those dreams to touch you deeply, and let them work their magic through you.

~♠ ♠~♠ ♠~

When I'm with you,
eternity is a step away,
my love continues to grow,
with each passing day.

This treasure of love,
I cherish within my soul,
how much I love you...
you'll never really know.

You bring a joy to my heart,
I've never felt before,
with each touch of your hand,
I love you more and more.

Whenever we say goodbye,
whenever we part,
know I hold you dearly,
deep inside my heart.

So these seven words,
I pray you hold true,
"Forever And Always,
I Will Love You."

The crash that killed Diana, princess of Wales, and her lover Dodi Fayed was supposedly caused by a laser beam flashed into the eyes of the driver.

   Surprising Secrets to Unshakeable Confidence

           There is no deity but Allah and Mohammad is his messenger

Recently published blashpemous Cartoon's against prophet Mohammed (pbuh)

      has taken the muslim world by grief and anger,No muslim of any status is ready to see or hear sucha blesphemous article's by Danish new's paper in particular and the west in general,this shows how little they know about  Islam and its finest,unmatched personality Muhammad sallahu alaihiwasallam,I protest this blasphemy against such a divine religion and  it's prophet.

History has recorded the appearance and deeds of many religious leaders: Moses, Jesus Christ, Zoroaster, and Abraham, to name just a few. There have also been many self-proclaimed prophets and messengers, each of whom has claimed to bring a divine revelation for mankind. Some have proven to be false, and others have been forgotten. But there is one religious leader who stands alone, an unlettered man who transmitted a revelation from God that literally changed the course of history and the destinies of a major portion of mankind: Muhammad, the Prophet and Messenger of God.

Encyclopedia Britannica confirms:

"...a mass of detail in the early sources shows that he was an honest and upright man who had gained the respect and loyalty of others who were likewise honest and upright men." (Vol. 12) B

Bernard Shaw said about him:

"He must be called the Savior of humanity I believe that if a man like him were to assume the dictatorship of the modern world, he would succeed in solving its problems in a way that would bring it much-needed peace and happiness." (The Genuine Islam, Singapore, Vol. 1, No. X 1936)

"If any religion had the chance of ruling over England, nay Europe within the next hundred years, it could be Islam."

Mahatma Gandhi, speaking on the character of Muhammad (PBUH), says in Young India:

"I wanted to know the best of one who holds today undisputed sway over the hearts of millions of mankind....I became more than convinced that it was not the sword that won a place for Islam in those days in the scheme of life. It was the rigid simplicity, the utter self-effacement of the Prophet, the scrupulous regard for his pledges, his intense devotion to his friends and followers, his intrepidness, his fearlessness, his absolute trust in God and in his own mission. These and not the sword carried everything before them and surmounted every obstacle. When I closed the 2nd volume (of the Prophet's biography) I was sorry there was not more for me to read of the great life."

Thomas Carlyle, in his Heroes and Hero-worship

was simply amazed as to "how one man single-handedly could weld warring tribes and wandering Bedouins into a most powerful and civilized nation in less than two decades."

“You do not do evil to those who do evil to you, but you deal with them with forgiveness and kindness.” (Sahih Al-Bukhari)

some Useful sites on his personality,

for one who know's nuthing about his

SACRIFICE'S.

http://islam101.com/rights/wwpMdo.htm

http://www.muhammad.net/

http://www.muhammad.net/biblelp/index.htm